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I’m kind of obsessed with Chelsea Handler right now.
She’s a master of the kind of dry wit and stone faced sarcasm that I love most. She’s bold, honest and absolutely hilarious. I’m not gonna lie, those are three of my favourite personality traits in other women. She has built a nice little niche for herself by daring to say what everyone else is thinking. And it doesn’t hurt that she’s a total babe.
The Jersey girl has three very awesome comic memoirs to her name (all of which were on the New York Times bestseller list at one point and all of which have caused me to laugh my hiney off at various times in their largely vodka-and-unresolved-childhood-rage-fueled proceedings). Funny and completely brilliant. I couldn’t put them down. I hope to hell that Chelsea is working on her next piece of work as I write this.
If you’re looking for some good reading material for the beach this summer, I highly recommend all of Chelsea’s books. I guarantee you’ll laugh out loud. There’s a very good chance I’ll read them all over again before the summer ends.
I’m also pretty sure that if I ever met Chelsea in person, we would instantly become best friends and subsequently drink copious amounts of vodka together. I heart you, Ms. Handler.
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Today as I was busting my ass on the elliptical machine at the gym, trying to avoid the guilt I felt for sneaking a cookie after dinner last night…I started thinking. I was looking around at all the other girls working out in that gym; staring into the mirrors, their reflections looking back at them. Were the same feelings of inadequacy going through each of those girls heads? Why do we do this to ourselves? Why don’t we ever feel like we’re good enough?
In the moral order of our media driven society, the definition of what constitutes beauty, or even an acceptable body, seems to become more inaccessible all the time. We live in a universe where you could bounce a quarter off the well toned abs of any celebrity, and magazines are filled with airbrushed photographs of emaciated models with breast implants. We are constantly bombarded with images of Nicole Richie and The Olsen’s among other twenty somethings who look like they need feeding tubes. How is any normal girl supposed to feel attractive or desirable when these ladies set the bar?
The pursuit of beauty has become an obsession for so many. It is an obsession that gnaws at the insecurities of most women; even those who are, by any objective opinion, drop dead gorgeous. Nobody wants to acknowledge that in our sophisticated decade, something as superficial as beauty can propel one person forward and hold another back. Society needs a revolution in its values. Beauty needs to be defined with much broader parameters. We need to avoid being trapped into the suffocating vanity that cuts off oxygen to the brains of so many girls (myself included!)
Beauty is nothing we can ever hold onto, yet we’ve panted after it through the ages, eager to drink it in and swallow it down in huge, hungry gulps- like the very breath of air itself. I’ve realized that if I have to sacrifice having fun and doing things that I enjoy in life to look a certain way, the choice is clear. Living fully and being happy is what life is for. Perfection is an illusion.
And in my experience, many of those who appear perfect to the outside world are merely camouflaging a plethora of imperfections on the inside.
I’ve come to the conclusion that you’ve got to have a healthy relationship with your body if you want to be happy with it. This has been an ongoing struggle for me. I wish I could say that I love and accept myself as I am, but the truth is, I have spent much of my life worrying about how I look and feeling insecure about my body.
We all come in different shapes and sizes, and the grass is always greener on the other side; two cliches that, like most cliches, happen to to be true. We are all different, and we all wish we had something other than what we have. What we women need to do, instead of worrying about what we don’t have, is just love what we do have. Get to know your body. Love it, respect it, treat it right.
Because really…doesn’t the world have more important issues to focus on?
(Originally posted: 6/30/07)
I have found yet another reason to love Amy Poehler (as if I needed one…) Amy, who is currently glowingly preggers with baby number two, runs Smart Girls at the Party, a website dedicated to empowering young women to be themselves and achieve their dreams. She co-produces a weekly web series that highlights girls with “a unique talent, community interest or point of view.” It’s done with a fun, quirky style that’s pure Poehler, and totally accessible to girls.
Poehler, the “actor, mother, dreamer, list maker, part time lipsyncher and full time goofball” and her two best friends, Meredith Walker and Amy Miles, aim to celebrate young girls who are “changing the world by being themselves.” The idea is to show girls that being smart is cool.
I think the whole concept is aboslutely brilliant and I sure as hell would have LOVED a show like this when I was a kid. I would have wanted to be one of those girls on there talking about my passions, for sure!
Amy told the Huffington Post, “The idea [for the show] came out of us wishing we had a time machine so we could go back to the younger versions of ourselves and let them know it was gonna be okay. We wanted to do a show that we would have wanted to watch at that age. And we knew we wanted to have a dance party at the end. We basically started with the dance party and worked backwards.” (I love this, because I admittedly have a dance party once a day!) Also, look for her hilarious husband, Will Arnett and friends from Parks & Recreation and SNL to pop in for dance party cameos!
Amy, Meredith and Amy represent real female friends and celebrate that stage of life where you write down what you want to be when you get older, before too many people tell you no.
The overall message of the show is: “Be yourself! And then tell us about it! And then let’s dance!”
With all the negative female images saturating our media these days, let’s just take a moment to say, “Thank you, Amy Poehler!”
If anybody knows how to bring the awesome, it’s Amy P.
Check out the link to an episode of Smart Girls at the Party.
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Khloe Kardashian is known for being the loudest and most outspoken of the Kardashian sisters. I got hooked on their two E! reality shows, Keeping Up With The Kardashians and Kourtney & Khloe Take Miami a while back (guilty pleasure style), and it didn’t take me long to identify Khloe as my favourite family member. While her personality definitely makes a bold statement, her fun fashion choices certainly do as well.
When it comes to their closets, all three of the girls tend to go for what’s trendy, expensive and high fashion. Of all the sisters though, Khloe seems to have best mastered the art of taking something basic to a whole new level. This girl can put on a boring black tee and make it fabulous. She has a seemingly endless array of fabulous hand bags and smokin’ hot kicks to accessorize every outfit with too.
Khloe also knows exactly how to dress for her body. Although she towers over her two older sisters (I can relate), she still regularly loves to accentuate her 5’10’’ frame and flaunt those amazing gams in heels. Statement jewelry and black nail polish are staples, and have really become her signature accessories. Plus, she’s got her handsome hubby Lamar Odom on her arm these days too. Cute!
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LeBron James’ big moment is here- not as an NBA champion but as a free agent. There will be no parade, no ring ceremony, no banner raising. He became the king of all media earlier this week, as he launched a new website, signed up for Twitter, and concluded matters by getting into the TV business.
More than two years of hype, drama, conjecture and expectation have dwindled to a few more hours.
All the coy responses and dubious speculation have come down this. Tonight, on a prime time made-for-TV special which will air on ESPN, King James will announce where he’ll play next season and beyond. Fans from coast to coast will tune in to watch, with the ones in his home state of Ohio praying they won’t have their hearts broken again.
You can watch “The Decision” at 6pm Pacific.
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As a Bulls fan, I’m hoping my prayers will be answered and that James will end up in Chicago. It broke my heart a little when it was announced that Chris Bosh had decided to join Dwayne Wade in Miami; however, the Bulls signed Carlos Boozer yesterday, which is huge. I think that a nucleus of James, Boozer, point guard Derrick Rose, center Joakim Noah, small forward Luol Deng and power forward Taj Gibson certainly rivals what the Heat has in place.
Even though the growing feeling around the league is James will announce he’s staying in Cleveland, the same source said the Bulls believe they’re still in play, although they aren’t sure what their chances are. The stage has been set for a dramatic dénouement. You better believe that I will be in front of my television tonight. One thing is for sure, LeBron is a serious drama King.
I drink a lot of water. Lately, I’ve been drinking my fair share of smartwater.
Who would have ever thought that there could be a healthier drink than water? Vapor distilled and enhanced with the essential nutrients potassium, magnesium and calcium, smartwater also has added electrolytes. This means it feels like you’re drinking regular bottled water but you’re actually getting the added benefits of those electrolytes, which help prevent dehydration, without the added load of sugar and calories that come along with sports drinks like Gatorade.
I really do love the taste and the extra benefits of smartwater, and I mean, I’m one of those picky water drinkers who doesn’t think all water is created equal. Sometimes it just don’t taste good to me. I’m a water snob, if you will. It’s not as if I stock my fridge with smartwater bottles. I do keep a jug of tap water with lemons in it in my fridge at all times. When I’m on the run though, smartwater does it for me.
If there is one thing that really sold me on the powers of smartwater, though? I have to be honest- it was Aniston. Let’s face it, anything that’s good enough for Jennifer Aniston to put in her ripped, well toned body is good enough for me. It must be the water and not the two hours of yoga that she does a day, right? Maybe drinking it will give me abs like hers? I mean, look at her. Doesn’t she make you want to reach for a smartwater? Oh, the power of advertising is an incredible thing. Well played, smartwater. Well played.
Filed under: fashion, Uncategorized | Tags: Chlöe Sevigny, Opening Ceremony, SP11
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Chlöe Sevigny’s Spring 2011 collection returns to the girlish aesthetic of her first Opening Ceremony collaboration. Tons of adorable dresses in leopard, gingham, chambray, polka dot and floral prints, as well as super cute staple cardigans. There’s some casual sportswear pieces thrown into the mix as well, such as varsity bombers, tight jersey sweatshirts, high waisted shorts, leather bottoms and baseball caps. Love the tights and sockettes available in matching prints too. And um, how fab are these photos from the lookbook with the NYC background, shot by photographer Robert Mapplethorpe? Love, love, love.
Chlöe is a real master when it comes to understanding the need for comfort and style, minus the fussiness factor. Quite predictably, I’ve already created a wish list in my head of which pieces I want- the gingham button down dress (complete with Big Love style pocket and collar edging) is definitely at the top.
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Beyoncé Knowles. She’s an ultimate fashion diva and a glamorous woman who enchants you with her vulnerable down-to-earth attitude. She’s beautiful, dramatic and loves to flaunt that voluptuous figure of hers.
I hate how the word voluptuous has been given this kind of negative connotation lately. It doesn’t mean big, or fat, or even a little bit chubby. In fact, Webster’s Dictionary defines it as “full of delight or pleasure to the senses, conducive to or arising from sensuous or sensual gratification.” It should be a compliment. It should be a positive thing. Maybe this is why I love women like Ms. Knowles who are proud of their curves and don’t try to hide them or cover them up.
“I feel best when I’m not really thin and not really heavy – when I’m still curvy. I really believe that everyone is supposed to be different, and whatever is a natural weight for you is usually what looks best.
I never want to get to that point where it’s not natural. I think it’s important to feel like a woman, as well as look like a woman.”
A true Texas girl at heart, Beyoncé loves big hair, loads of fabulous makeup and all the glitz and glamour of the red carpet. She credits the female-empowered era of the 1970s as a source of fashion inspiration. She loves how women like Tina Turner, Cher and Diana Ross always looked like superstars and never played it safe. She tries to emulate this with her own risk-taking looks.
Whether she’s dressed more casual and fresh faced in her down time, glammed out superstar style for the red carpet or pumping up the drama on stage, Beyoncé always looks fierce.
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A certifiable product and makeup junkie, I absolutely love experimenting with different brands, techniques, colours, and textures in an effort to find new and fun ways to make eye-popping statements. Sometimes, I’m let down—like when my creative pursuits are undone by cake-y liner, flaking mascara, and not-so-long-lasting shadow. Other times, however, I fall head over heels—as was the case with Maybelline New York’s Eye Studio collection, which you can find in drugstores now.
I was sent an amazing train case full of Maybelline Eye Studio products to try out by the kind people at Matchstick. Unfortunately, the incredible package showed up at a time when I was travelling a ton and all but completely drowning in my work, so I didn’t get a chance to open it all up and play with it right away. Since my life settled down a little, I have been having an absolute ball experimenting with these products over the last month or so.
Composed of vibrant stay-put shadows, smooth gel eyeliners, and pro-power mascaras, the stunning products are all under $10, but out-perform many pricier products I’ve tried. No joke—since opening my preview samples, I’ve been using the Colour Plush Eyeshadow every day. I’ve been trying them all, and definitely being much more daring with colour than I have been in years. Love it!
Another product from this line that I can’t stop gushing about is the Eye Studio Colour Pearls eye shadow- particularly in Bronze Blowout. If you’re looking for an awesome every day, but not boring colour, this is it- epecially against the glow of your tanned summer skin. You can swirl it all together for a softer look, or apply the light on the bone and the dark on the lid or crease. You can even apply it wet for extra intensity or just brush it over your entire lid on days that you’re tight for time. I promise, it looks hot even on its own- a really pretty, shimmering colour, with touches of gold…
7 different pure pigments are swirled together for gorgeous dimensional colour.
I’m obsessed.
If you’re looking for great products that fit into your beauty budget, Maybelline New York’s Eye Studio collection is the answer.
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The gorgeous and talented Rihanna is coming to Vancouver this weekend for a show on Sunday July 4th at GM Place. It’s one of those awesome summer concerts that you don’t want to miss- with special guest, Ke$ha. (Two of my current fave artists for excellent booty shakin’ music.)
The good news is that it may not be too late for you to score tickets. My friends at WOMWorld/Nokia will be running a competition tomorrow where tickets will be up for grabs. As part of the lead up to the launch of their new N97 mini, they are driving a Nokia branded RV across Canada, starting in Vancouver. All of the details can be found on the Nokia Canada Facebook Page. Tomorrow, they will be sharing their location on the Facebook Page and inviting music fans to come and find them. Once you get there, a lyric from a Rihanna song will be read and you will be challenged to sing the next two lines. The first people to do so successfully will win a pair of tickets to the concert. Tickets will also be reserved for the best and funniest entries.
Keep your eye on the Nokia Canada Facebook Page for more details as they’re released. I’ll keep you in the loop via my Twitter stream too. Good luck! I can’t wait for the show on Sunday!
